on online dating, meet cutes & magicIt was a few weeks into 2014 and I was feeling ready for new beginnings. On a walk with a friend, we started talking about dating and how…Feb 2, 2021Feb 2, 2021
Reading as a Creative ActI believe that reading is an act of creation. The reader brings the writers’ words to life uniquely and individually. No two readers…Jan 19, 2021Jan 19, 2021
None of Us Will Have Enough TimeIn an interview with the poetry magazine jubliat, poet Lynn Xu was asked, “Why do poets want to publish? What part of the process or…Jan 18, 2021Jan 18, 2021
How a “Bootstrapping” Perspective Helps You Reach Big GoalsI often write about studying Creative Writing in college. What many readers might not know is that I was also a student of the Marshall…Jan 15, 2021Jan 15, 2021
On Setting a High BarWhenever I read a rough draft by a young writer, or when I look over a business plan from a student asking me for feedback, or when I am…Jan 13, 2021Jan 13, 2021
How Far Will Your Ripples Go?A few years ago, I went with my friend Marjie to UC Berkeley to see the Scottish Ballet’s stunning performance of Tennessee Williams’…Jan 11, 2021Jan 11, 2021
How to Pull Off an Epic Surprise PartyWhen you ask my husband, Allyn, about his favorite memories of our relationship, at the top of his list is: “The surprise party.”May 19, 2017May 19, 2017
Give Yourself a Metaphorical HaircutThe other day around lunchtime, I wandered into the kitchen to wrangle together something to eat, and I noticed a funny smell. I couldn’t…Apr 27, 2017Apr 27, 2017
Why Mindless Consumption Might Be An Internal Cry for HelpI remember the first and only time I went shopping on Black Friday. It was my final year of grad school and I was spending Thanksgiving…Apr 21, 2017Apr 21, 2017
What Seeds Are You Planting Today?The first time I remember noticing daffodils popping up in the springtime was my junior year of college. This might sound crazy to some of…Apr 11, 2017Apr 11, 2017