Feb 2, 2021on online dating, meet cutes & magicIt was a few weeks into 2014 and I was feeling ready for new beginnings. On a walk with a friend, we started talking about dating and how hard it was to meet a romantic partner “out in the real world.” My friend was a middle-school teacher at the time…Dating8 min readDating8 min read
Jan 19, 2021Reading as a Creative ActI believe that reading is an act of creation. The reader brings the writers’ words to life uniquely and individually. No two readers experience a book in exactly the same way. Readers create the experience of the book based on their frame of reference, mood, memories, and associations. …Reading4 min readReading4 min read
Jan 18, 2021None of Us Will Have Enough TimeIn an interview with the poetry magazine jubliat, poet Lynn Xu was asked, “Why do poets want to publish? What part of the process or practice is publishing?” I love her response: I don’t know. I can’t speak for everyone, but I think a lot of us publish because we…Writing5 min readWriting5 min read
Jan 15, 2021How a “Bootstrapping” Perspective Helps You Reach Big GoalsI often write about studying Creative Writing in college. What many readers might not know is that I was also a student of the Marshall School of Business during my four years at the University of Southern California. I majored in Creative Writing; I minored in Entrepreneurship. I learned a…Writing4 min readWriting4 min read
Jan 13, 2021On Setting a High BarWhenever I read a rough draft by a young writer, or when I look over a business plan from a student asking me for feedback, or when I am pitched an idea for a collaboration or project, I think of a woman named Cynthia. …Writing3 min readWriting3 min read
Jan 11, 2021How Far Will Your Ripples Go?A few years ago, I went with my friend Marjie to UC Berkeley to see the Scottish Ballet’s stunning performance of Tennessee Williams’ famous play “A Streetcar Named Desire.” It was my first time going to a professional ballet performance — my only previous ballet experience was attending community performances…Creativity5 min readCreativity5 min read
May 19, 2017How to Pull Off an Epic Surprise PartyWhen you ask my husband, Allyn, about his favorite memories of our relationship, at the top of his list is: “The surprise party.” Looking back, I was probably a little bit crazy-in-love when I decided to throw him a surprise party. We had only been dating for seven months. It…Party5 min readParty5 min read
Apr 27, 2017Give Yourself a Metaphorical HaircutThe other day around lunchtime, I wandered into the kitchen to wrangle together something to eat, and I noticed a funny smell. I couldn’t quite place it. It wasn’t a food-related smell. It was something more… chemical. “Allyn?” I called. “Does something smell weird to you?” He came into the…Positive Thinking6 min readPositive Thinking6 min read
Apr 21, 2017Why Mindless Consumption Might Be An Internal Cry for HelpI remember the first and only time I went shopping on Black Friday. It was my final year of grad school and I was spending Thanksgiving with my boyfriend’s family in the Chicago suburbs. During the Thanksgiving meal, the topic of Black Friday came up. Before then, I never had…Black Friday6 min readBlack Friday6 min read
Apr 11, 2017What Seeds Are You Planting Today?The first time I remember noticing daffodils popping up in the springtime was my junior year of college. This might sound crazy to some of you — that I was into my second decade on this planet before I paid those bright yellow flowers any mind. But I grew up…Travel6 min readTravel6 min read